It comes around that lots of the people that we come across in our everyday lives are possible friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, workmates, playmates, workout buddies and so on, but what do you do when you have a crush on someone that you know it can never happen, she may be your friend's sister, your workmate, your boss, or for whatever reason someone you cannot be with!

There will always be that tiny ray of hope that maybe, maybe, someday it will come true, or you may get over your crush sooner than you think, but my question is: would you give up your relationship with that person to crush out?

If you believe that what you share with that someone is worth working for, why don't we enjoy the relationship for what it is, if we cannot have all of what we want, does that mean we have to leave the rest? probably one of the best pieces of advice i ever recieved.

i agree that it can be hard sometimes to move on from the place you want to be to were reality is taking you, but if you take the leap, it can sometimes lead to a better place that you first imagined.

This comes in as yet another way to start looking for the best in your life, living it to its fullest, and remember, if you can't have the cake, you might as well try the icing...

Enjoy!

5 comments

1. Anonymous on August 16, 2008 at 4:29 AM

   Well well well......

    
2. The Observer on August 16, 2008 at 4:02 PM

   why don't you look after a different cake then? :)
   
   That would be a better advice I guess :P

    
3. hamatosha on August 17, 2008 at 11:13 AM

   you might as well do both observer, there is no harm in exploiting a possible sugar rush :)
   
   the more the merrier!

    
4. a different perspective on August 22, 2008 at 11:06 PM

   It depends...
   Barriers like that shouldn't necessarily stop you.

    
5. hamatosha on August 24, 2008 at 4:36 PM

   well it depends on what barriers you encounter; some might be just a totally different interest, one that cannot be shared, among others that is,