btw, the title does not relate to the post, in case you were wondering...
Am usually a very helpful person, i go out of my way to do stuff for other people when they ask, and why would i do so? because i think people wouldn't have asked unless they really needed the help, as naive as that is, its how i look at it...
now for me, i do not usually turn and ask for people's help unless i really need it, most often that not for not having enough time to finish up, and for some reason, i always expect a firm "yes, i will" of people, and is often left with half a brain when that doesn't happen...
Being in such situations have taught me to put myself in other's shoes before i judge, vent, and decide to do sth that i might regret later, does that person even ask for my help? have i ever turned a cry of help before?... it helps keep things in perspective...
well, i don't really think i have a point here, just some conclusions that am figuring out as i write this down, but it will continue to bug me, asking for help is the first step, so step up and give it to me...
